Did i do the right thing?

My bf & I r 14 yrs old & we had 4 the 1st time & I feel like I should've waited longer but we've been datin 4 almost 9months & we love each other a lot. when we did it it kept hurting but I couldn't have an & he didn't "pop my cherry". He asked if he did & I said I didn't know he asked if I had an & I said I think I did but I know I didn't. Did I make a mistake saying that I did? I know the next time we do it I'm seriously going to try but the pain was just over powering me and it was hard.